SHITALIA - worst place on earth!! (and still going down)

[jorgino]

First off: italy sucks, period! The cities are filfthy dirty, the people are as rude as can be and the monuments are falling apart. Why am I saying that? Because what I've experiencied there I don't wish upon my worst enemy. rome is so dirty it's disguting, the water in venice smells like sewer, italians don't have any concept of waiting in lines, at any moment somebody will jump in front of you and when I tried telling the guy that there was a line the attended just signaled for me to wait, oh then of course, they speak no english at all, or at least refuse to speak to you, and even though I know how to speak spanish and understand everything they say, they still pretend they can't understand you. they lie to you in the information centers, they lie to you about train times, oh and the strike, priceless! Everywhere we went, I could hear people talking behind my back, in the train this one guy was standing in the middle of the isle, I was the only who said "excuse me" to go by, and then this guy starts yelling at me in italian, I lost it! when we went to a restaurant (which they tried overcharging us with things we didn't order) the guy called out the order and at the end added: "this is for the americans". Yes, I AM American (by choice not by birth) and PROUD OF IT!!! So you know what? FUCK YOU ITALIANS! There, I said it..

[raoulduke]

Ouch....That'll be controversial.

[Esterina]

Sorry to read you've had such a bad experience ! Fortunately (for them), other tpunks have had better luck in Italy.

Is the rest of your trip going well?

[travelpunk]

Sorry to hear about your experience bro.

I must ask you, when you encountered all of these things, how was your overall demeanor? This is important because if you appear to have a chip on your shoulder, then you will attract negative energy.

If you let one thing affect you in a negative way and don't resolve that mentally, you will carry that energy subconciously and it will affect the way you think, feel, and act.

When other things happen to you after that, and you don't feel right about those as well, these things will just compound on top of each other and all you will begin to notice are the negative things around you, until the "lid blows off the pot," which is kind of what we're seeing right now.

This is the law of attraction. What you focus on- E X P A N D S.

Understand, I am not trying to give you a lecture, just something to think about.

I too had some negative things happen to me. I was ripped off by a train reservationist in Amsterdam by about $80. I was ripped off at a post office for $60 in Paris. Encountered rude waiters, train operators, taxi drivers, sales people, street vendors, etc...But you know what? I learned to look past all those things and focus on the positive things like mainly, I'm finally in Europe and not in my cubicle!

Many people on here have been to Italy and saw what you saw, but their overall experiences were opposite of yours.

There is a good old saying that goes- "Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out."

I would encourage you to reprogram your mindset to always seek out that which is positive, no matter your circumstances and or environment, and you will attract positive things and experiences.

When this happens, you may experience Italy in a different light .

[joe7f]

I think we have all had experiences like jorgino's at some point along the way. Check out the thread called "Dumbest things you have heard tourists say" toward the back I talked about a Venetian Restaurant that pissed me off royally. Customer service isn't a European strong suit (especially along the Med).

Traveling makes you appreciate your country all the more. Let's face it, as nations go, the US is pretty awesome, but we don't have gelato everywhere, the Trevi fountain, the Pantheon, the forum, the colloseo, David, St Mark's square, the Uffizi etc. When you see Andre Rieu play at a local arena it doesn't quite have the majesty of his concert in Cortona.

Unfortunately the experience will likely make you never want to return to Italy, but at some point in the future, I urge you to give it another try.

If you do decide to go back let me recommend three things:

1.) Keep a loose itinerary. Having things to do things on a tight time table make for stressful trips in Italy, the land that punctuality forgot (actually I think that pretty much applies all over the Med)

2.) Go in off season. Since off season coincides with cooler weather, you will get a double benefit of not being sardined into Venetian alleys going in circles following the Per Rialto signs and have it be more pleasant to be outside if you do get turned around. Hot weather makes for hot tempers.

3.) Learn some Italian. This goes for every country you go to actually. Few people expect you to be fluent or even functional, but learning grazie, prego, per favore, scusi, parli inglesi and the like will probably endear you to locals and make them feel more comfortable speaking their second language to you. Moreover, it makes you feel more independent. In as little as 4 weeks you can really hit a language hard to get up to a very basic level (I did that with Japanese, so pretty much any Western language will be comparative cake).

Be extra friendly to tourists here in the states. Chances are they did not have the best first impression with US Immigration officials. Anyone who had an experience like yours, will at the very least be able to say "Yeah I had some negative experiences but I did meet this one extra friendly guy"

Believe it or not, Italy is a wonderful country. I wish you better luck for the rest of your trip

--Joey

[SGRHewitt]

Originally Posted by joe7f

3.) Learn some Italian. This goes for every country you go to actually. Few people expect you to be fluent or even functional, but learning grazie, prego, per favore, scusi, parli inglesi and the like will probably endear you to locals and make them feel more comfortable speaking their second language to you. Moreover, it makes you feel more independent. In as little as 4 weeks you can really hit a language hard to get up to a very basic level (I did that with Japanese, so pretty much any Western language will be comparative cake).

To add to that, when I said parli inglesi to a store worker near the Vatican, he was shocked... He didn't speak English however. He then shut down his store temporarily, and took me to the nearest person he knew that spoke English. I couldn't believe all he did, that just goes to show you, people respect your attempts at speaking their language.

[travelpunk]

Great advice in here, TPunks !

[joe7f]

Originally Posted by SGRHewitt

To add to that, when I said parli inglesi to a store worker near the Vatican, he was shocked... He didn't speak English however. He then shut down his store temporarily, and took me to the nearest person he knew that spoke English. I couldn't believe all he did, that just goes to show you, people respect your attempts at speaking their language.

That's awesome Andrew. It goes to show you how wildly varying experiences can be. I had the same thing happen in Bari.

There is also an unintended benefit of learning another language. You learn how to talk to people more effectively. For example, if I am speaking with someone whose first language is French, Spanish or Italian, I will use words like intelligent instead of smart, fantastic instead of awesome, automobile instead of car etc.

Native English speakers are largely awful at doing this since they don't study languages. Using slang, speaking quickly, using contractions etc are all things that make you tougher to understand.

Even if altering your language becomes difficult you will, if nothing else, feel a lot more sympathetic towards someone struggling with the language since you have been there too.

--Joey

[Swag]

I realize this thread is a couple years old, but just decided to add my two cents. I've been in Italy for 2 weeks now without knowing a word of Italian. However the first thing i did when i got here was pick up an English to Italian Phrasebook for about 10 euros and it has made a world of difference. Just some simple phrases like "Parli Inglesi" and "Il conto, per favore" when at a restaurant got me some of the best service i've had in forever.

[katybar]

jorgino, about "speak another language", read my experience: when I was in Barcelona I studied in an international class with Spanish, Italians, French, Russian, Swiss, German, English and Americans. We all speak spanish except... try to guess? Yes, the Americans... they pretend all of us to speak English. At that time I was very angry with them for that reason, we were in Spain! Why should we speak English?
Now I'm sure that I should have try a contact with them, because maybe they were scared about living there with people who speak Spanish very well... because now I believe in this:

Originally Posted by travelpunk

if you appear to have a chip on your shoulder, then you will attract negative energy.

If you let one thing affect you in a negative way and don't resolve that mentally, you will carry that energy subconciously and it will affect the way you think, feel, and act.

I worked in Rome 4 years, I loved that people!

[Dig]

-Katybar Not all Americans are the same. I loved Espana and have a poor grasp of the Spanish language (although I use it todo dias).

[aliz]

Originally Posted by raoulduke

Ouch....That'll be controversial.

you're such a wise prophet adam.


hmm, can't be bothered to add much to this except that
-I wasn't much of a fan of rome
-I have been to venice twice in winter and LOVED it. some cities are just better in different seasons
-throughout my whole life I have noticed that you get great customer service if you are a polite and patient customer. places such as restaurants and supermarkets, which may seem very familiar to us at home, work slightly differently all over the world and I think this is the cause of a lot of people thinking that other cultures have bad customer service. for example in australia, in most restaurants the staff are trained to greet customers at the door and seat them at a table. If the staff are busy, you wait to be seated rather than just picking a table. This doesnt seem to happen much at all in europe and so we had several awkward moments with staff wondering why we were hovering around near the door watching them! it's just little things like that which can sometimes turn into big incidents if people aren't understanding of different ways.

[mish99]

Wow this sucks, especially since I just booked my flight to Rome!!! Wahoo!! Haha.

This is the first time ive heard such bad reviews about Italy. Dont let those things get you down and ruin your trip....try enjoy everything, even the bad things. Maybe im just a 'glass half full' kinda gal.

[travelpunk]

Originally Posted by mish99

Wow this sucks, especially since I just booked my flight to Rome!!! Wahoo!! Haha.

This is the first time ive heard such bad reviews about Italy. Dont let those things get you down and ruin your trip....try enjoy everything, even the bad things. Maybe im just a 'glass half full' kinda gal.

'zaaaaaactly...

I thought Rome was great. "In Roman times, Rome was the center of the universe." That's what I kept re-playing over and over in my head when I was there and looking at the world famous sites and ruins.

Trevi fountain= mind blowing .

[kiwichick]

I had a rough time in italy, recovering from a drink spiking and then having a friend and my grandad both die back home, but i still wouldn't shit on italy. Wasnt that bigger fan of venice but went for a bike ride where we were staying on the coast and was touched by the beauty and simplicity of tyhe countryside. I don't really remember florence cos i was in quite a shocked state i guess, but rome i still managed to enjoy. I had a lovely hostel owner watching over me and letting stay on computers after hours to write a eulogy to send home and generally just trying to get a smile out of me, we had some lovely meals, looooovvved the trevi fountain, and i think in better circumstances i would've loved rome.
haha sorry thats my hungover ramble over. I am sorry you didn't enjoy italy though

[florencia9699]

Ouch! loks like an experience from hell... lol, too bad you feel like that though, I loooooove Italy. And yes there are strikes, and yes they try to overcharge, and yes they don't speak English (or dont care to... that's the beauty of it).

Seriously, too bad you had to go through that in a negative way... but u see that everywhere. There's rude people everywhere, and they try to con u everywhere... I mean... look at Canada you can't even ride the bus without getting stabbed... (I know Canada is one of the safest places on Earth... or I feel like it is, but I just had to mention it). So perhaps you just run into a series of stuff that happened all in one trip... some things you can't change, but what really matters is your attitude towards it. For example, when I was in Greece with my parents there was a port strike and we COUNDN'T SEE A SINGLE Greek island!!! Instead of hating all greeks alike we decided to take a tour of the Peloponese and is one of my happiest memories while travelling with my family!

Hope you have better luck next trip!

[Elizabeth]

I totally empathize. Sometimes we just don't have a great experience in a country or city. I feel the same way about a certain other country but I'm not naming names because I'm willing to give it a chance to redeem itself.

Where are you headed next?

[Esterina]

^^We know it's not Ukraine.

I believe it's ok to complain about countries, without losing the perspective that it was our experience.

I too have a will-never-return country and when I give advise about it on the boards, I do warn travelers against what they might encounter. I do so, because I feel it is helpful, as a lot of travelers I've met in that country, were also unhappy for the same reasons as mine.

[Elizabeth]

Originally Posted by atchoum

^^We know it's not Ukraine.

hahaha, now that you mention it...I strongly advise the OP not to go there. In fact I advise the OP to go to Germany.

[SGRHewitt]

I had similar thoughts on Venice, however Rome/Florence were amazing. Venice just had to many tourists, and I got sick of getting lost lol.